I have not met many ENFPs, and you know, at my age, I can only meet the immature ones. To me, they are absolutely a disaster.
ENFP: Ne-Fi-Te-Si-Ni-Fe-Ti-Se
ENTP: Ne-Ti-Fe-Si-Ni-Te-Fi-Se
I do not know how you all take ENFP, but as an ENTP 5w6, I panic when I have to face them.
The reasons might not be logical.
They think they are soooo depressed and try to grab everyone’s attention by committing suicide. They often get into trouble, and as a “good friend”, I have to help them finish all the mess they’ve made. They think they are like ENTPs, always acting stupid not to offend people; though in the real case, their grades are often F or C, it is just that the teacher is nice and gave them a B.
Infj is nice, but even the INFJ in the class cannot stand what the Enfp did. The Enfp thought he had many brilliant ideas, and this made the INFJ and me work for him. He did nothing. And it might surprise you, on the thing ENFP requested, I did more than INFJ. It was probably because the INFJ knew the ENFP was just taking us a piece to finish his own goal. Of course, the INFJ was unhappy about the ENFP.
One ENTP told me ENFP sucks the most in the world; at first I did not believe it. I was mistyped by the 16personalities as an ENFP, so I thought not every ENFP is dumb like that. Then I did more deeply research and found out that I am an ENTP who is extremely like an INTP, due to my 5w6.
You think I then have the idea that ENFP sucks? No. I still thought they were wonderful, but a little lazy. I have to tell you the truth. Some ENFPs are evil. If you don’t know, I’ll tell you. What is the sequence of INTJ? Think hard. Then you get the answer. Ni-Te-Fi-Se-Ne-Ti-Fe-Si. Now you get it, right?
No personality is evil, they are neutral. But ENFPs have the potential to get what they want by using their Te. They act like they are mentally poor to get your attention and what they want.
Ok, as I said, that is only IMMATURE ENFPs. I get along quite well with mature ENFPs. I know you will ask, wait, you said you’ve never met a mature ENFP? Well, I am sorry for not mentioning that. A math teacher of mine is an ENFP. Whilst getting along well does not mean I like them. It is more like a so-so; people who know will know.
